Gestalt Psychotherapy
"I am a Gestalt therapist. I can only speak for myself" Levant
"In session, I listen to what they say, for what’s missing and the dominant theme. I’m interested in their tone of voice, their posture, gestures, how they walk, sit, stand, hold their head, how much effort they make, whether they flee or hold on to me at the end.
I’m interested in their capacity to feel their body, perceive the environment, identify their needs, mobilize their resources and fullfil their goals, and everything they do to interrupt this natural process.
I work to help them admit what they feel, to realize what they do, to speak from the heart, move in harmony, think with feeling, and here I’m interested in what I may be doing to obstruct it.
I enjoy working on the pre-verbal level to offer a respite from the analytical, logical narrative which I don’t consider contactful: dream-work, supporting excitement, asking clients what sensations they feel when they label an emotion, to mime in a gesture or posture a feeling they can’t identify as theirs.
I support honest and genuine expression and confront the phony and the self-defeating. Here I listen for the deep needs often expressed in a twisted fashion. I work with polarities to re-establish equilibrium and natural functioning. If they invoke an error of their past expecting punishment or absolution, I’ll ask what they’ve learned. When they interpret, I bring them back to the facts. If they propose an action in violation of their values, I ask them how they’ll live with it. When they blame someone, I may ask them to put themself in the other’s shoes. When they talk of being rejected, I ask how they rejects others or themself. I can ask them to exaggerate a gesture, an attitude, a twisted posture, or just to make a little less effort...
If they find their grief unbearable, I may share my own and let my own sorrow show. If they’re incapable of identifying an emotion, I can whisper a word or suggest they paint their feelings. When a client weeps for a dying loved one, I ask when they’ll cry for themself. When a client expresses guilt, I’ll check if they feel resentment. When they forget something they’ve said in a previous session, I may recall what they once shared. I indicate when they’re back in the past, or anticipating the future. When they seek to control everything, I remind them of the forces beyond us.
If I’m touched or bored I’ll say so. If I’m feeling angry, powerless or incompetent, I can choose to tell them how I feel. I share the messages I hear from them. If an image crosses my mind, I’ll evoke it. And at an opportune moment, I can ask a probing question."
Gestalt therapy focuses on the relationship between the client and the therapist. The Gestalt therapist works together with the client using what is happening between them in the here and now rather than what is being talked about. The emphasis is on what is being thought and felt at the present rather than what was, could or should be.
The way the client relates and communicates with the therapist is brought into the client’s awareness and looked at as a tool to understand how the person relates to the people in their life.
In Gestalt the person along with the therapist will work towards gaining awareness.
How do I do what I do, when do I do it, and how do I feel?
There is no right or wrong, as long as one is aware of what is happening and feels empowered to change it should they wish to. An emotion is something experienced in one’s body in the here and now and later translated into feeling. The Gestalt therapist therefore encourages the client to pay attention to their body and take it seriously.
The therapist is not all knowing. In Gestalt the therapist is part of the process and uses their own experience during the sessions to help the client. In Gestalt “niks moet and alles mag”, nothing is obligatory and everything is accepted.
The client and the therapist build a strong, healing and trusting relationship that will empower the client to make their own choices and experience a “safe freedom”. Gestalt therapy focuses on the relationship between the client and the therapist. The Gestalt therapist works together with the client using what is happening between them in the here and now rather than what is being talked about. The emphasis is on what is being thought and felt at the present rather than what was, could or should be.
Gestalt is an existential form of psychotherapy that emphasizes personal responsibility. It was developed by Fritz and Laura Perls, as well as Paul Goodman in the 1940's and 1950's.
Need to find out more? Here are some links:
Gestalt Therapie NVAGT website
Gestalt Therapy Page
Gestalt Therapy Network
Société Française de Gestalt
Gestalt Psychotherapy Journals
Gestalt Psychotherapy Journals
The British Gestalt Journal
Quadeni di Gestalt